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  • David & Lee's Dam Hoi.

    Every couple makes their own happiness.

    David and Lee have known each other for 14 years. I've known David for 12 now. He asked if I could shoot his Vietnamese engagement ceremony (known as a "dam hoi") two weekends ago. For those who don't know, during a dam hoi, both families are introduced to each other and the guy asks for the girl's parents' blessing and proposes to the gal in front of both families. Of course, I obliged and drove out an hour out to Richmond, Texas to Lee's parents' house early on a Sunday morning to start shooting.

    Lee and her mom

    One of Lee's cousins. So ridiculously cute.

    David's sister Marie

    The ceremonial roasted pig.

    About to begin the procession into the house.

    His parents led the way, with David just behind them.

    The proposal.

    The reception was at Kim Son on Bellaire in one of the private rooms. They, of course, had bottles of Remy out, but it was only noon.

    David's family.

    Lee's family.

    The dam hoi turned into a mini-wedding of sorts, with cake cutting and speeches and the like.

    Lee and her lil sis.

    Overall, it was a pretty nice affair. Both families were in-your-face friendly and made you definitely feel like a part of theirs. It was a happy occasion and I'm glad they're finally getting married. I told my parents about me shooting the engagement ceremony/celebration and of course my dad goes and says, "You keep shooting other people's engagements, when are you going to have yours?" He brings up the subject of the absence of a significant other in my life more frequently these days. Me, I'm just a regular guy who just gets his heart broken regularly.

  • "Be kind, for everyone you meet is fighting a hard battle."

    -Attributed to Plato

  • I shoes you, Valentine!

    My shoe, reflected on a glass pane at the Galleria.

    Happy Valentine's Day (and Lunar New Year)!

  • Miscellaneous.

    Trying to clear off space off my desktop. It's been a big mess, but I think it's alright now.

    This is the proper way to reheat an eggroll in lieu of actually placing it directly on the surface of the toaster oven grill. It makes me sad when people reheat things in the microwave that will taste the best reheated in the oven (i.e. pizza, egg rolls... anything that should have a crispy/crunchy exterior component).

    One night I wanted bacon-wrapped something or other. I ended up cutting pieces of meat and individually wrapping them with slices of bacon. The end result was fantastically delicious and a little cute.

    Jennifer has become pretty adept at making these bento box-style lunches and made me one for lunch one day (I had requested a monkey).
     

    Patrick bought the house some Dom Perignon for Christmas and we all gave it a try. I think this is only really appreciated by champagne aficionados because I couldn't tell if it was really that great. I mean, it was good, but I couldn't distinguish it being that much better than other champagnes I've had.

    This mail I got with a check enclosed from my brother made me laugh. He used his empty utility bill envelope to send it.

  • Rah-rah-Omigaw.

    Let me preface Melissa's birthday party with a disclaimer: I actually hate themed parties. Because, invariably, I never have the outfit that is required and I stress out looking for said outfit. I don't even have an awesome 80's outfit anymore because I loaned it to my cousin while he went to Rice for an 80's party and he ended up losing it. If it were up to me, all themed parties would be "Wear nice shoes just in case we end up going out after dinner even though everyone is a homebody now and probably won't".

    So when Melissa's party came up and she wanted it Lady Gaga-themed, I was screaming in my head. What the heck do guys wear for a Lady-Gaga themed party? It's not like on my birthday I tell everyone, "Ok, this year's theme is: topless." But good friendship > my dislike of theme parties, so I quit screaming in my head and sat down and made an effort to find something. I sat around looking through all of Lady Gaga's music videos for any guys that showed up, but most of them just looked hipster. I ended up finding this:

    So I spent a few hours running around town trying to find a wife beater (I mean, an "A-shirt") which I have never owned in my entire life and which were sold out of in small packs at a walmart and two targets before I could find one (why are they so popular in medium? I have no clue). Then I drove around another three locations before I could find a pair of suspenders. That was half my Saturday. Anyway, this is the final result: ASKARSSSSS, fittingly, from the music video Paparazzi.

    Tu and Tramanh.

    Patrick & Tu. They out-Gaga'ed everyone that night as the backup dancers.

    Melissa and Thomas from the Bad Romance music video. I was pretty impressed with the chin strap she made him.

    Group photo.

    We started off dinner at Late Nite Pie and headed off to a korean karaoke joint that Seo knew of. They have pretty recent songs (the newest Taylor Swift, the new Lady Gaga/Beyonce "Telephone", etc, etc) and they also had a button on the remote you could hit called "Disco" and "Techno" that would add a dance-y beat to any song playing and sped up the tempo. Songs that normally slow down a party's momentum like Dido's "Thank You" became suddenly much more energetic.

    Melissa and Linlin start off with some Lady Gaga. Backup dancers commence.

    One half of the room.

    The other half.

    Even the backup dancers eventually sing.

    Birthday girl

    Donny singing Ring of Fire

    Our Korean cultural ambassador Seo

    Afterwards, Seo took us to a late night korean soju bar in the heart of Koreatown. Patrick here makes out with his dream girl Hyori.

    The finest bottle of soju you will ever see.

    After that, we rounded off the night at a super-late night Korean restaurant that, after 2 AM, you had to ring a doorbell to get in and an old Korean lady would come out and let you in.

    The party turned out pretty fun- we got to see what Korean people do late night on a Saturday night, and I think Melissa had a pretty good time at her party. Happy 29th today, Melissa. Your present is still on backorder.

  • It's a Healthcare in the USA.

    In the week between returning from Beijing and heading off for my road trip around the U.S., my knee did not seem to be recovering properly from the fall. At first, in Beijing, I fed myself a steady diet of Ibuprofen to reduce swelling and had a cold compress applied to my knee (something that I did not know- you're supposed to alternate having the cold compress on and off, not leave it on the entire time).

    On the Tuesday after I returned from Beijing, my cousin suggested I should have it looked at- it had been about a week and the knee still looked swollen. And it just so happened to be my driving foot. Now, it just so happens that about this time, I did not have health insurance for one reason or another, so my cousin suggested checking out the free clinics of Houston.

    Bright and early Wednesday morning, I call Casa de Amigos, located just on the outskirts of downtown Houston. I give 'em a ring at 8:10 AM (the website said the lines were open at 8 AM). I'm on hold. My family time plan is 400 anytime minutes a month and the minutes are ticking away. Fifteen minutes later, I get connected through. I ask if I could see a physician to look at my knee this week. They tell me the first available appointment is October 20th, about three weeks from now. I say I've got a road trip in a few days, is there anything else I can do? They tell me I could always come in for triage and I could possibly see a doctor that day. Except it was nearly 8:40 and if I went in now, I probably wouldn't be able to see a doctor today. The operator tells me I should get there as early as possible tomorrow- they open at 6:45 AM.

    Thursday morning, I arrive at Casa de Amigos at 6 AM. There are no cars in the gated lot and there's one other car waiting on a side street for them to open. The area around the hospital is somewhat unsafe, but who would be up this early to do bad things? I had 45 minutes to go.

    Around 6:30 AM, they open the gate to the parking lot and I make a go for it. I'm the second parked car, yet there is already a line at the entrance some ten people deep. Things don't look so good.

    They let people into the clinic at 6:45 AM. We shuffle in and suddenly the line disappears- everyone save two in front of me move to another part of the clinic- I believe these were the people with appointments. So I'm third in line for the walk-in triage. Things are looking up. They ask if I have medicaid. They ask if I have any of the other available forms of insurance. I tell them, I don't have anything. This thought suddenly depresses me. They tell me to sit in the waiting area before they call on me.

    I had brought my book. Hospitals and clinics are a depressing affair, but I suppose other than births, when are they not? A baby coughs in the waiting room and I suddenly think maybe I should hold my breath. Aren't hospitals where things spread pretty easily too? I haven't had chicken pox yet. This baby could kill me. There is a mosquito in the waiting room. I move my arm to swat it away and my arm brushes against my pants, unhinging the scab on my elbow from the fall. Gross. My mind wanders. I read my book.

    It is now 7:30 AM. At 6:45, I was number three to be seen, now the waiting room is completely full.

    I get called in after waiting an hour. The nurse puts me on a scale. 159 lbs, fully clothed and holding my novel. I'm really 155. I cracked 150 lbs in college. In the 7 years since, I've put 5 lbs on my gangly frame, those 5 lbs seemingly centered on my stomach and face for good measure.

    I think maybe I am feeling better. Maybe I don't need this triage- what am I doing here? The nurse informs me that the visit to see the doctor today will be $76. That's not too bad. I tell her what happened to me in China. About the great fall. She looks at my leg.

    She then tells me there would be no one available to see me today.

    Wait, what? I was third in line! How could there be no one available? She tells me that a few of the doctors are out today, and if I needed an x-ray of some sort, I would have to try again another day. I'm slightly frustrated. "Since you didn't see a doctor, there will be no charge for today's visit." I suppose that's fine, but I want to see a doctor and get this knee thing checked out. I go to the receptionist's desk and they give me a list of alternate available clinics. It is 7:55 AM. I call in. No answer. 8 AM. No answer. 8:10 AM. No answer. No one wants to pick up that phone to see me. I go home and give up for the day.

    Friday morning I call the San Jose clinic and ask if they can see me today. Saturday I would be shooting Melissa's cousin's wedding and Sunday morning I would be off on my road trip. The receptionist tells me yes, if I came in right now, they would be able to see me today. I drive up to the downtown location. I walk in.

    The place is not that packed, so things were looking good. I go up to the counter. The receptionist asks me if I have any insurance, or a membership card with the clinic. A membership card? "Yes, it's free to register if you want one." Yes, please. Sign me up. "Unfortunately, the girl who does the registration cards is not in today. You will have to wait until Monday." Wait, what? Are you serious? What does it take to see a doctor if you don't have health insurance?

    When I get home, I try one last place that San Jose Clinic had recommended to me before I left- Iba Sinar Foundation Community Medical Center. I call them around 9 AM and ask, if I come in today, will I be able to see a doctor? The receptionist tells me, yes, if I come in now, I can see a doctor today. It's not too far from home and it'll be my last attempt at seeing a doctor.

    When I arrive, the waiting room is about 1/3 full. It seems manageable. I sign in at the receptionist desk and the girl working the desk is a pleasant Indian girl who was quite pleased to find out that I was also born in 1980, same as her. I have brought my book again and have made decent headway into it while waiting. 2 hours later, I get called in to see the physician.

    The doctor, his eyes are strikingly blue. Unnaturally blue. They are like that of the hypnodog. I maintain eye contact with him hypnotically throughout the visit.

    He examines my leg, tells me to walk around. He tells me I am getting sleepy, verrrry sleepy (ok, he doesn't). He tells me it's just swelling, no x-rays necessary. Nothing's broken, and there's not enough fluid in the knee to warrant any sort of soft tissue scan. Sometimes, he assures me, just a regular old examination is all you need.

    We make some small talk- he is quite pleasant and upon hearing about my road trip, actually makes a highly useful recommendation for a place to see while out traveling America. It turns out to be one of my favorite spots once the trip is over.

    On the way out, the bill comes out to $25. That's it. I find it to be ridiculously cheap seeing as to how the city of Houston clinics were running at $70 or so. $25 for peace of mind. A small price to pay, I'd say.

  • Beijing Days 12 & 13: This is it.

    My cousin's family (well, mainly my aunt and uncle) do not pack light.

    On our last day in Xi'an, we headed out to the Hanyangling museum, which I had never heard of.

    I had no idea what to expect

    A small scale replica. Ho-hum. I guess we'll just go in...

    OMIGAWWWWW. THIS IS X-FILES CREEPY. The place is near pitch black save for the excavation holes. You walk on a glass floor hallway that you can see through to the bottom to the excavation pits beneath. Filled with LITTLE NAKED DOLLS. HUNDREDS OF THEM!

    Well, this one not so creepy.

    Who would want to commission these?

    Looking straight through the floor into the pit.

    There are several of these pits, but this one had the most visual impact.

    So many laid out, in a random/non-random order.

    They aren't even all excavated either.

    The last dark glass-floored hallway before descending downstairs.

    So you can get a closer look at these naked doll things.

    I don't even know why a horse or somesuch was buried here.

    Hundreds of little animal statues.

    The final exhibit hall. Not as creepy as upstairs.

    This building houses the remains of the city wall.

    City wall, eroded away.

    When we got back to Beijing late that afternoon, we had our last night at Tini & Ed's house, catered by their personal chef. I started eating and then one of my eyes started swelling a little. These past few days have been fairly trying on my body. We topped off the evening with a nice little celebratory cake to end the trip.

    Oh, and this is what a marriage license/certificate looks like over there. Similar to my passport, you open it up and there's a picture of Tini and it says that she is married to Ed. Ed's matching marriage license/certificate says that he is married to Tini. Cute.

    Oh yes, and one last glimpse into asian tv- we were watching tv back at the hotel room at Han's Royal Garden that night and came across this all-too-familiar ad:

    Hmmm...
    Vincent and I headed back that Saturday, with the rest of the family staying until Monday. After traveling to other cities in China and this flight from China back to Houston, I'm now certain that the TSA is just plain idiotic/inefficient after all my years and years of business travel. Here, customs was a pleasant experience. Workers were not disgruntled when the metal detector alarm went off. They did not yell at customers who were slower nor freak out over liquids. Security was actually a majority young females, and even though everyone went through the metal detectors and got the metal wand, the scanners were gentle and quick and the lines (there were like 10 of them open at a time, not 2 or 3) were no more than 10 people deep and moved fairly quickly. I've come to hate TSA more and more, especially with the news about the naked body scanner machines being implemented.

    Last meal at Beijing's airport. Flavor Tang. It looks pleasant enough.

    Chicken with lobster sauce. Pork in black sauce. Tastes just like mall food. Ugh.

    I boarded the plane and a mother with a one year old sat next to me. In fact, 34d in the back section of the plane was rapidly filling up with babies. This made me die a little inside. Luckily, the flight wasn't as full of crying as I had anticipated. Here are some dumplings and noodles on the plane ride home.

    I never know what to buy people when I take trips overseas, so I bought everyone bizarre chips. Food is good because if they don't like it, they can just throw it away without any guilt. I had a suitcase full of weird flavors like cucumber, mango, kiwi, lychee, braised pork rib, italian red meat flavor, and the like. I've tried some- not bad.

    Anyway, I suppose this is the end, guys. It's been a heckuva trip. Here's a quick breakdown of some of the stats for the two weeks I was in China (and why the wedding was back in September and I finally got around to posting it now):

    2770 photos on my Nikon D300
    202 photos on my Canon SD780IS
    195 movie clips on my Canon
    and a handful of clips on my dad's sony camcorder.

    Of course, I didn't edit quite so many and facebook has a lot more pictures posted, but you guys get the condensed version with more backstory fleshing it all out. Hope you enjoyed the tale!

  • Beijing Day 11: There's a Xi'an wolf in disguise (awooooooo).

    After a full day of adventuring, we headed out of a popular dumpling restaurant in Xi'an off a busy street.

    They're known for the huge variety of dumplings they have, some in the shape of animals. This one's spicy chicken (in the shape of chicken, get it?). Among the other types of dumplings we had that night (and they were all pretty good, or at the very least, interesting): walnut, ham&corn, tomato, sweet, fried rice, pumpkin&pork, spicy pork, and too many more to name.

    At the entrance, they had quite a few other dumplings on display.

    Cute.

    Paras!

    Frog & gold fish

    This sign in our hotel's elevator makes so much nonsense I cracked up when I saw it in the elevator.

    DO NOT LET YOU SEE THE SAME

    All for under $20 for each Hello Kitty cake. Not bad.

    They also had these mini kites all tied together on a long string flying around that you could buy.

    We saw a large cluster of these mobile telescope bikes, each with a strong green laser pointer attached and pointing at whatever celestial object the telescope was trained on in the sky. So awesome. It was cloudy that night, but you could still see through these telescopes.

    Tino drops down some 10 yuan and takes a peep through. When I got up there, he had it pointed to jupiter, which was super tiny, but you could definitely make it out, as well as a few of the moons surrounding it.

    There were a whole bunch of food stands and souvenir tables lining the street back to the hotel.

    While the rest of the family went back to the hotel, Tino, Vincent, and I went off in search of meat on skewers and beer to top off the evening and ended up in this open-air hole-in-the-wall. We started off with 600mL bottles of Hans for the each of us.

    And just started pointing at random skewers for them to bring to us. Each one is about bite size, so we ordered a ton.

    I even picked out some ribs.

    During the course of the evening's man-chatter, a Chinese man with a saxophone came up and asked if we wanted to hear any songs. Except it was obvious neither party understood the other, so it was more signing what we wanted. We thought it would be hilarious if he could play the theme song from the Olympic Green that was on repeat over and over on the speakers throughout the Olympic grounds, except he had no clue what we were talking about, so I drew the Olympic rings in my little notepad and showed it to him. He still had no clue, so I racked my brain trying to think of the first popular Chinese song that I could think of that he might know, and came up with a song I've liked for years:

    I was originally thinking of the David Tao version, but it's a pretty popular old Chinese song and I just googled it right now and came up with the version I embedded on this page. I had no idea what the name of the song was at the time, but I hummed the first few bars of the chorus and a light went off in the saxophonist's head and he got excited and started playing. I think we surprised the workers there- us foreigners requesting a song like this, because one came up about to say something and stopped and everyone turned to listen. The saxophonist played it well, and it definitely felt like one of those "movie moments", where everything feels a little surreal with us sitting in a random hole-in-the-wall in a foreign country listening to good music, or maybe it was the alcohol finally kicking into our system. We tipped the saxophonist and he played another song for us- one we had never heard of- before leaving.

    We stayed there talking man things until every other customer on the street else had gone home. We didn't even realize the restaurant/hole-in-the-wall was closed, as the workers all sat down prepping food for the next day. This here's a picture of the damage we caused that night. All for some twenty five dollars U.S. Ridiculously cheap, and one of the other things that will always stand out when looking back on this trip.

    As we headed back, we passed by the McDonald's near our hotel around 1 AM.

    Fried taro pie is delicious out here.

    All in all, a good last night in Xi'an.

  • Beijing Day 11: Haus of Bathing.

    After going to the terracotta warrior site, the tour guide led us to the silk and jade shops obviously catering to tourists. We didn't really buy anything and my cousin was a little miffed that the tour guide didn't take us to places that locals would buy such things. Anyway, while waiting for the group, I took a picture of a sleepy little dog in front of the shop.

    Uh, yeah.

    Our next stop was to the remains of the imperial bathing pools. The main draw of this place was that it was where Chiang Kai-shek was kidnapped in the Xi'an incident. As I walked through the ticket entrance, the gate swung closed for some reason and banged my swollen knee, which was nice because it took the pain away from the lacerated finger.

    I was taking this photo because I liked how the lines in the picture converged and my aunt was all, "Let me see, you always take such artistic photos." I showed her what was on the lcd and she was all, "Why'd you take a picture of a ladder?"

    Chiang Kai-shek's bathroom. Not very comfortable, it looks.

    Siblings.

    They were also filming something that day. One of the crew loaded counterweights so that the camera man could take a high shot of the statue in the next picture.

    One of the most enchanting ladies of ancient china, Yang Guifei, one of the emperor's favorite concubines. He spent so much time in her company that he neglected state affairs, which eventually resulted in a rebellion. Women'll do that to guys.

    The now-empty hot bathing pools. They had separate bathing pools for the cooks, officers, etc.

    They were also filming a commercial/promo of some sort.

    This all makes sense in the next photo.

    Ah, a promo for "A Song of Everlasting Sorrow"

    Enough touring. Up next: eatings.

  • Beijing Day 11: Seven Nation Army.

    Finally, the real terracotta warriors site. It's way bigger than I could ever have imagined. I mean, just this first area is larger than a football field, all air conditioned and protected from the elements. Absolutely amazing.

    Equally amazing is that the facial features for each of the warriors is unique. Side view of the soldiers' chamber.

    Free standing warriors near the back.

    Our humor is pretty sophisticated

    The second pit has higher ranking officers and is just a little bit creepier.

    Shattered warriors.

    The third area/pit contains the unearthed warriors. They're still trying to figure out how to preserve the paint on the warriors, so they haven't finished excavating these yet. Under the wavy rock is actually the roof over the warriors entombed inside.

    More shattered warriors

    All these have warriors that have yet to be unearthed beneath them.

    Here's something I didn't know- the warriors actually used to be painted! Exposure to air and sunlight eventually faded it away to what it looks like today. I'll bet it was absolutely amazing back in the day.

    In the final area, there's a huge puppet-like version of the warriors. Fairly creepy. The traditional terracotta warriors were actually made to be taller than the average Chinese person in that era.

    Screepy.

    In this area, they also have the horse-drawn carriages that they've uncovered. This is the first one.

    The detail is amazing.

    The second carriage.

    View from the back.

    We had a break at the tea room after visiting the pits.

    The lychee concubine tea is excellent- by far one of my favorite teas I've had.

    The only noodles they had were the instant noodles. But when you're hungry, they hit the spot anyway.