Today, my family observed the one year memorial for my grandmother's funeral at the Buddhist temple in south Houston. The first time someone close in your life passes away, it's a life-changing event. In the one year since then, everything in my life has accelerated to where it seems like the funeral was so long ago because of everything I've gone though, yet it feels like it just happened not too long ago at the same time. Places were discovered. People were met. Things I'd been putting off for far too long were finally crossed off the list.
Along the way, I feel like I've opened up opportunities that I never would have encountered otherwise, but I also feel like the year was hampered with continually poor decisions on my part. I screwed up something that could have been great because of my crippling awkwardness, insecurity, and general personality flaws. New highs and lows were hit. It's been a pretty rough year since the funeral, probably one of the best and worst years of my life. So for the my first update for the new year, I thought I'd start with what matters the most: family.
This Christmas, we had it at my cousin Tinou's place on account of Sofia's 8 PM bed time.
I got there first, and Sofia was lounging on the pillows on the floor.
She got a little Toy Story futon that she absolutely loved.
My cousin Tino had been overseas, so this was one of the first Christmases that he's been able to make it for our annual family dinner in a few years. He deemed it a "White Russian Christmas" and came bearing a bottle of vodka and kahlua to add to the festivities.
Father & Daughter
The grown-ups (I still refer to them as such, even though us cousins are well within that age by now) stayed inside while my brothers and cousins stayed in the backyard chatting and bbqing in freezing weather combined with a ridiculous windchill factor.
Tino serves up the first batch of white russians, mixing it with the baby's spoon.
My dad trying on Tino's Russian-hat-he-bought-while-in-Russia.
Almost 2, Sofia is old enough to figure out how to open presents now.
She's in her pretty princess phase too.
My mom got her a rocking horse, which was her fave gift for the night
Tino tries out Sofia's new futon.
Her second favorite gift? Batteries. Kids these days.
After dinner, we used to have an annual tradition of drinking the Jones Soda Holiday Gift Pack they used to sell at Target, with sodas flavored along the lines of brussel sprouts, gravy, and turkey. They've since discontinued that line, so this year I found a few random brews to try- a bottle of jalapeno wine from a winery in south Houston, and octopus, wasabi, and curry flavored sodas I had purchased during our family trip to Japan in March. I poured them all out into separate cups, mixed them all up, and everyone took turns guessing what each flavor was.
Tina went first.
She didn't fare too well. Everyone else made it through the gauntlet of mystery beverages without gagging too much.
But as per tradition, after the initial tasting, we took all the remnants in all the cups and poured them all into one cup for fantastically gross results.
If people didn't make a disgusted face before, they all did now (I didn't think it was that bad).



























































































































































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